That’s all you can ask and hope for.
You can’t fault a man (or woman) for making sure that they feel secure. You need to do what you need to do.
Everyone needs to make sure that they are happy with their surroundings; happy with their life. It’s no one’s responsibility but your very own to make sure that you wind up happy. No one else is on the hook.
You can’t buy happiness.
Luck only gets you so far.
Sometimes you just need to grab life by the throat and get on it it.
Like I said… you can’t fault someone for doing just that.
Good luck! :-)