Talking about the future that might be if things go in some direction. Future perfect is talking about the future talking about the past. “Will have been”

But when you’re talking about “what will maybe have been” things become complicated.

It’s an interesting conundrum in many ways. Something like quantum mechanics that you observing the situation and commenting on it changes this world. Talking about feelings that might be in the future change the fundamental nature of how things are working.

In some ways you can say it’s tipping your hand. But isn’t that the same as communicating what you want in the first place? Are you secretly working to what you want anyway?